101 things in 1001 days - one more try

I tried to do "101 things in 1001 days" already back in 2006, but I didn't do much. It's hard to understand that 2006 was almost 20 years ago :-D 

Creating your own 1001 Day Project

The Mission:

Complete 101 preset tasks in a period of 1001 days.

The Criteria:

Tasks must be specific (ie. no ambiguity in the wording) with a result that is either measurable or clearly defined. Tasks must also be realistic and stretching (ie. represent some amount of work on my part).

Why 1001 Days?

Many people have created lists in the past - frequently simple goals such as new year's resolutions. The key to beating procrastination is to set a deadline that is realistic. 1001 Days (about 2.75 years) is a better period of time than a year because it allows you several seasons to complete the tasks, which is better for organizing and timing some tasks such as overseas trips or outdoor activities.

Some common goal-setting tips:

1. Be decisive. Know exactly what you want, why you want it, and how you plan to achieve it.

2. Stay Focused. Any goal requires sustained focus from beginning to end. Constantly evaluate your progress.

3. Welcome Failure. Frequently, very little is learned from a venture that did not experience failure in some form. Failure presents the opportunity to learn and makes the success more worthy.

4. Write down your goals. It clarifies your thinking and reinforces your commitment.

5. Keep your goals in sight. Review them frequently, and ensure that they are always at the forefront of your thinking.

Now, I am a slightly different person today than 17 years ago, so all the 101 things on my 2006 list won't be on my 2023 list, but it is a good place to start.

1. Read a book every week, a book I haven’t read before, from the “lists”

I want to get all the books I've ever read in a reading journal somehow... I wish I could get my library records from the time I was little, because I have just a vague memory of the book, and that's not enough to find the book.

2. Keep a reading journal

3. Visit the library every month

Visit the library once a month and hide a surprise in a library book every time you visit. With your home page URL, and invitation to visit and leave a note. "I loved this book, so if you like it, too, we might become good friends. Come see me at --- and contact me. 

4. Hide a surprise in a library book every time you visit

5. Buy me a fairytale book every month and learn one fairytale by heart from it

I want to learn kouji to add to my storytelling

6. Write every day

7. Keep a writing journal (at least once a week)

8. Keep a dream journal – write every day, even when I don’t remember the dream

9. Write a book this year and get it published by a “real” publisher

10. Translate 2 books this year

11. Get a laptop

12. Finish NaNoWriMo

13. Write an art journal page every day

14. Make a good picture every week with colored pencils – not a sketch but a finished picture, with background and all

15. Frame one piece of art every two months

16. Buy a fin de siècle graphic piece or a piece of original modern art twice a year

17. Practice portrait drawing

18. Finish the family portraits

19. Send a message with a balloon

20. Send a message in a bottle

21. Drop 10 toys in town during this time

22. Click free every day

23. Become a better blog pal: Visit 10 blogs every month, and leave a comment when you visit

24. Fix the website

25. Empty the mailbox

26. Meet an internet friend

27. Write a letter to siblings every month

28. Celebrate holidays – all of them

29. Send self-made cards on holidays

30. write the sabbath books

31. Get 8 sabbath boxes

32. Clean the apartment

33. Give away 100 items to a charity shop

34. For every new item that enters the home, give or throw away 2

35. Do the dishes every day

36. Do the laundry every week

37. Decorate the house to fit our personality and lifestyle

38. Go to 2 picnics this summer

39. Have a tea party

40. Celebrate the 40th properly

41. Keep the economical plan

42. Learn to play D&D

43. have a game night with friends

44. replace our plants – 1 a month

44. 100 species challenge

45. learn to make preserves, sweet and savory

46. plant a tree every year

Grow at least one tree every month, raised from the seeds of the fruit you've eaten, and plant them in the forest during the summer. Choose domestic fruit or nuts.

47. learn to make cheese, yogurt, quark

48. learn to bake Danish rye bread

49. learn to bake Danish pastries

50. Learn fruit carving

51. Learn to trim the dog

52. Get a professional trimming machine and scissors

53. Train the dog well in basic obedience and some tricks

54. Do one craft from “the blog archive” every month

55. Finish Summer of Socks, 52 pairs and Socktober with honor – more than 3 pairs of socks, thank you 

56. Make a dorodango of Kangaslampi dirt

Make a dorodango of the dirt from every place you have lived in. 

57. Make two dozen handkerchiefs to reduce the paper waste

58. Make reusable pads to reduce the waste

59. Keep a health journal

60. Make a kite and fly it

61. Learn 10 card tricks

62. Learn to read cards well and read cards to a stranger

63. Learn to do my own Gothic make-up and wear it in public

64. Learn to use high-heel shoes

65. Take my shoes to a cobbler

66. Get a corset

Make myself a corset

67. Get a tattoo

Learn to make tattoos

68. Fix the sewing machine

69. Design and make a summer wardrobe

70. Plan the world round trip

71. Fix passports

72. Learn 10 languages well

73. Learn sign language

74. Learn shorthand

75. Learn speed reading

76. Learn 10 different mnemonic techniques

77. Get to the law school

78. Move to Turku, Finland

79. Take photo booth photos with Henric

80. Visit one exhibition, art gallery, or museum every month

81. See a hockey game live with Henric

82. Go to a theater with Henric

83. Keep a dream journal – write every morning something, even when I don’t remember the dream

84. Learn to play guitar well

85. Learn to play accordion well

86. Sing karaoke in public

87. Give a speech in public

88. Treat me with things from my wishlist

89. Trace my family back 6 generations

90. Take a first aid/CPR course

91. Donate blood 5 times

92. Loose 40 kg (target 70 kilos)

93. Exercise more

94. Sleep 8 hours every night

95. Learn to control panic anxiety and social phobia

96. Learn to control overachieving, unreasonable expectations, perfectionism, and stress

97. Learn to control codependency

98. LIVE

Now, this one... I had a "live instead of existing" on my 43 things list. And I was thinking about what it means. 

One thing is using the senses. To see, listen, taste, smell, and touch something beautiful every day.

Another thing is experiencing things. Do new things, do things that scare me, go on adventures.

A third thing is a mindfulness. Seeing and experiencing the holy in everyday things, like cleaning. Focusing on things I do. I mean, there's nothing wrong having a movie night with hubby and just potate on the couch, but I should be doing that, and not doing internet and other things like that on the side.

A fourth thing is keeping this body in as optimal peak condition as I can. And that means a lot. I should be able to do Iron Man, parkour, contortionism, and Wim Hof. :-D

99. Keep an illustrated blog about this list and how it goes

100. write a new list

101. have a party 

If I start 1/1-23, the last day will be September 28th, 2025. 

Day 3 of Autumn

 The maple outside our window is starting to blush. It's just a hint, just a whisper, but it's there. The sky is high and clear, and it's slightly windy. Yes, this is Autumn. I love Autumn.

Today I'm going to talk a little bit more about journaling. 

On my Bucket List, there's "sharpen your observational skills by drawing". During the Victorian times, upper-class children were taught to draw and illustrate their journals because photography wasn't as normal as it is today :-D We have "the Country Diary of an Edwardian Lady"

You can also practice some other skills with this:

- watercolor painting

- to observe and deduct like Sherlock Holmes

- drawing from memory (It's mostly a practice thing, but I have always wanted to be able to draw from memory, for example people's portraits - to draw accurate portraits of people I just saw once in the bus, or things like that. So that if I witness a crime, I could give the police a drawing that's as good as a photograph... But that would be useful with drawing animals as well. Wild animals don't tend to pose for a portrait :-D)

August 3rd is the International Beer Day and the Watermelon Day. There's plenty of beer related bucketlist goals, to me, brewing beer is the most interesting. On my bucketlist, and Autumn bucketlist is "learn to brew mead, ale, cider, wine". It takes about 4-8 weeks to brew beer from scratch, so if you start now, you can feast with your own homemade beer on October fest. (Also, August 6th is the Mead Day. Two flies with one swat, huh? :-D)

About watermelons. Learn to pick the best watermelon, and learn to conserve watermelon rind. There's plenty to do with that, both sweet and savory conserves. 

Day 2 of Autumn

 The best thing today was seeing a wild rat playing with two magpies. First I thought the magpies were harassing the rat, but then I saw how the rat stopped to wait for the magpies to catch up. :-D

In my October 2019 posts I'm talking about getting better with photographing. Start with October 1st, if you want to go through three different 30 days photography classes :-D Some links might be dead, but - that's internet. I'm sure you'll find something equivalent online.

Then some words about the Autumn Daily

- It is Ali Edward's December Daily, but adjusted for Autumn, so browns, oranges, reds and yellows, with a dash of burgundy, instead of green, red, white, silver and gold. Leaves instead of snowflakes. Forest animals, pine cones, and other Autumn imagery. You get the picture

- It is also for three months and not for one month

- Don't wait for the first day to begin it. Prepare it in good time beforehand. Get inspiration from Autumn themed scrapbooking pages and December Daily pages, collect Autumn themed imagery and scrapbook papers and other things you can think of using in your journal. It is totally fine to make the pages before, and just add the photos and journaling in December. Actually, it's better, because then you can make the pages when you have time and inclination, and it makes it easier, and thus more realistic, to journal the days. 

- Write a preliminary plan for what you want to photograph and journal about. For December Daily, there are several lists about Christmas traditions, like cookie baking and Christmas tree decorating, that can be planned on a certain day of December, and then, of course, you will have your December Daily page about that. 

- You can also leave the photographing for one day of the week... when you look at your journal many years later, no-one will remember or know about you "cheating". I suppose the only thing to change this is the weather. If snowfall is a rarity in where you live, you must go out and take photos of it when it happens. If there are some events on certain days, you have to photograph them when they happen. This is self evident, but most of the days can be photographed on the same day. (If you want to keep your "cheat" a secret, just see that the people in the photos aren't wearing the same things all the time :-D)

- Journaling is best done every day, because you will forget. It doesn't need to be complicated and fancy, just write something short about the things that made you happy that day. If you can't find anything that made you happy, make yourself happy. It could be anything, like the luxury of clean sheets on the bed. (We change the sheets every week, and it's still a luxury :-D). Or getting a special breakfast. Having a movie night. Finding a new, lovely book to read. You could also write quotes in your journal, like song lyrics or Autumn quotes you find online. 

Beginner's Guide to Creating a December Daily Album

It's that time of the year, again :-D

 It's 1st of August, the first day of my Autumn, Eve of Lammas. 

I'll try to tick off posts from my Bucket List - which you know is massive and in all ways rather stupid :-D - as I suffer from "Texas complex". Everything must be bigger and better and HYOUGE!!! 

So I have all kinds of things on my list, totally in spite of how realistic, rational, and reasonable any of them is. 

Now when I'm over 50, I have started to think that perhaps I could adjust my list to my circumstances, being that I'm not a North American 20-something. I'm past my child-bearing years, and I have no interest in visiting all of the United States, for example.

But - following the lead from the last effort of reaching a goal every day of a year, I'll follow the "national days" calendar etc. 

Also, the next three months, I'm trying to do my "Autumn Bucket List".

1) Write an Autumn bucket list

2) write a list of 92 things you love/like about autumn

1. Of course, the colors of Autumn leaves
2. Crispy air
3. Wind
4. Rain
5. Foraging - berries, mushroom, fruit
6. Back to school - school supplies
7. Autumn fashion; the preppy 40s style English country
8. Soup and freshly baked bread
9. Apples
10. Forest - follow a path
11. Hygge
12. The melancholy Autumn songs and music
13. Comfort food
14. Cuddling in a chair with a cat, blanket, a good book, and a cup of something warm
15. Harvest, all the root vegetables, cabbage etc.
16. Autumn flowers
17. Playing in the leaves
18. Calmness, peace, serenity
19. Lughnasadh
20. Mabon
21. Crayfish party
22. Rosh Hashanah
23. Mid-Autumn Festival
24. Oktoberfest
25. Hobbit Day
26. Halloween
27. Baking spiced things, like spice cookies, cinnamon buns, spice cake, carrot cake, pumpkin pie...
28. Mulled wine and apple cider
29. Cinnamon
30. Soft chunky socks
31. Community college / civic college / Worker's Institute courses start (or what ever it's called in English)
32. Homemaking
33. Books, especially cozy mysteries and children's books
34. Stars come out (I live in the Midnight Sun area. We don't see stars during the summer.)
35. Long cozy dinners 
36. Light through the windows
37. Game nights
38. Mist
39. Nesting
40. Cats
41. New beginnings
42. Layering clothes
43. Storms
44. Writing
45. Pumpkin spice
46. Knit stockings
47. Sweaters
48. Tweed
49. Knit tams
50. Salted caramel
51. Caramel apples
52. Candy corn
53. Pumpkins
54. Confort food; stews and casseroles
55. Roasted vegetables, roasted meat
56. Pie
57. Streusel cake
58. Afghans and blankets
59. Boots
60. Tartan
61. Peacoats
62. Apple cider doughnuts
63. Fire; fireplace, campfire
64. Chestnuts
65. Sunsets
66. Sunrise with the glistening frost
67. TV season starts
68. Chili and biscuits
69. Hikes
70. Chai lattes
71. Tights and skirts
72. Corduroy
73. Smoke
74. Lazy brunches
75. Trains
76. Scavenger hunts
77. Geocaching
78. Cooking, especially slow cooking complicated recipes and many course dinners
79. Canning, preserving
80. Gratitude
81. Puzzles
82. Museums
83. Too cold for bugs, warm enough to be outside and enjoy the sun
84. Bike rides
85. Crafting season, knitting, crocheting, sewing...

The best part of today was when my cat went behind the washing machine - it had moved away from the corner enough for her to get behind it - and was purring loudly, and the washing machine was amplifying the purring :-D It sounded as if the washing machine was purring. I love that silly cat.

PopSugar's 100+ things to do before you die

 Some nice ideas here: 100+ Things to Do Before You Die:

Watch a Meteor Shower

Spend a Night in a Tree House

Stomp on Grapes to Make Wine

Try the Latest Food Fad (Like a Cronut)

Go Lavender Picking

Meet an Animal Who Is Internet Famous

Leave Your Mark in This World

Ride a Horse in the Ocean

Dance in the Rain

Literally Reflect at the World's Largest Salt Flat Salar de Uyuni in Bolivia

Give a Shelter Pet a Home

Stay in an Overwater Bungalow

Buy Expensive French Lingerie (for Yourself or Someone Else)

Go on an African Safari

Attend a Music Festival

Swing on the Edge of the World in Ecuador

Go to a Masquerade Ball

Leave a Love Lock Somewhere

Participate in a Holi Festival

Bathe in Milk

Jump Into a Pool (or Bath) Full of Jelly

Bake a Rainbow Cake

Visit the "Real" Santa Claus in Lapland

Live Happily Ever After

Create an Ice Cream Flavour

Celebrate Your 50th Anniversary

Explore a Shipwreck

Make a Snow Angel

Experience Zero Gravity

Eat in an Underwater Restaurant in the Maldives Called Ithaa

Stand on a Boulder Wedged Between Mountains at Kjeragbolten in Norway

Participate in a Flash Mob

Be Part of a TV Show Audience

Attend a Big Horse Racing Event

Build an Igloo

Donate Blood

Dress in Costume For a Book Release

Dress in Costume For a Midnight Film Premiere

Build a Gingerbread House

Take a Pinup-Style Photo

Attend a Comic Book Convention in Costume

Make a Rainbow Rose

Go Flyboarding

Image Source: Flickr user Maguide

Run a Marathon

Make Your Own Pizza

Go to the Top of the Eiffel Tower

Create a Family Recipe Book

Feel Great in a Swimsuit

See a West End or Broadway Musical

Tour Googleplex (why?)

Ride a Gondola in Venice, Italy

Ride an Elephant

Create a Reading Nook

Walk the Streets of Kyoto

Get a Henna Tattoo in India

Zip-Line With Family or Friends

Make a Call From Red Phone Box

Stand Under the Hollywood Sign

Cuddle a Baby Tiger

Visit All 7 Continents

Float in the Dead Sea

Watch Baby Turtles Hatch

Visit All 50 US States

See the Northern Lights

Skydive

Finish a Diary

Go on a Hot Air Balloon Ride

Pay a Stranger's Restaurant Bill

Jump Off a Cliff

Spend a Night in a Teepee

Go Dogsledding

Go Zorbing

Visit Stonehenge

Ride a Vespa

Skinny Dip

Break a Guinness World Record

Feed a Giraffe

Be a Movie Extra

Throw a Coin in the Trevi Fountain in Rome and Make a Wish

Be in 2 Countries, States, or Counties at Once

Learn a Language

Take a Photo Every Day For a Year

Donate Hair to Cancer Patients

Watch the Olympics in Person

See Wimbledon in Person

Go to the World Cup

Finish a Book in One Sitting

Cage Dive With Great White Sharks

Backpack Through Europe

Go Deep-Sea Fishing

Drink Beer at Oktoberfest in Germany

Watch the Sunset in Santorini, Greece

Cook a 5-Course Meal

Visit a Chocolate Factory

Swim in Devil's Pool at Victoria Falls in Africa

Soak in the Blue Lagoon Hot Springs in Iceland

Take a Helicopter Ride Over a Volcano

Hear Oprah Winfrey Speak in Person

See a Famous Opera Singer Perform

Meet Grumpy Cat

Forgive and Let Go of Grudges

Fly in a Private Jet

Walk Behind a Waterfall

Swim With Dolphins

Watch the Cinderella Castle Fireworks at a Disney Park

Travel Somewhere New Every Year

Name a Star

Prepare a Care Package For the Homeless

Send a Message in a Bottle

Swim in the Largest Pool in the World at San Alfonso Del Mar, Chile

See the Fairy Pools in Scotland

Find 10 most exciting adventures and do them

 Find adventures anywhere, from movies, television, books, real life, anecdotes, newspapers, where ever you find any. Start collecting them.

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100 Best Adventure Books of All Time

The 10 Female Adventuresses You May Not Have Heard Of

Get F*d Up, But Not Really

 

101 places to get f*cked up before you die

So, what to do to get the most out of a wild night out partying?

* get comfortable dancing. Learn club dancing, and get fit to dance all night

* learn to drink smart. Yes, get tipsy, but not so f*d up you don't understand what is happening.
- eat, before, during, after. 
- drink plenty of water. An easy rule is to have a glass of water between every alcoholic drink. You can disguise your glass of water by asking the bartender to make it look like a gin and tonic. Some people find water drinkers in a club annoying.
- find your favorite cocktail that doesn't make you drunk too quickly, and stick to it. Mojito and Cuba Libre are good drinks because they are served in a glass that doesn't fall easily. Piña Colada comes usually with fruit that's good. Cosmopolitan tastes good and looks pretty, but comes in a glass that falls easily. Mai Tai comes usually in a good glass also. Anyway, experiment and test until you find your signature cocktail, and stick to it. (It's of course totally fine to drink shandies, cider, spritzer, or white wine. Whatever rocks your boat.)
- KEEP AN EYE ON YOUR DRINK. People could try to slip in something you don't want to drink. If you have turned your back to your glass, don't drink it. Better to waste the money than wake up raped in some back alley. Or not wake up at all.

* take cat naps during the day

* dress for comfort - test your clothing before the party. See that you can dance on the table without popping out of your dress or breaking your ankle because of your shoes. Sure, heels are sexy, but swollen, sore feet are not. 

* test the makeup and hairdo - choose something that still looks good after hours of partying

* go with friends and have a pre-party. Don't get drunk yet, though.
- agree on regrouping times and locations when you enter the party space. Regroup about once every hour. That gives you the freedom to find new friends without failing the old ones.
- make new friends. Keep moving and invite people to dance with you. (The more you dance, the less you drink, and the better you feel the next day.) 
- set signals - what to do to get your friends to rescue you from unwanted attention, for example, or if you are starting to feel bad and need to go home

* pack your purse - it should be small enough to be on your all the time, something that is not easy to steal or lose or pickpocket. You should have your credit card, smartphone, ID, some light toiletries so that you can keep your makeup nice, tissues, and keys. See that your phone battery is fully loaded.

* arrange for the ride there and back. See that you have enough money to take a taxi back home, or a friend to pick you up or something. 

* you'll probably need to wait in line a lot. Learn some waiting games and activities you can do with your line neighbors. Maybe simple magic tricks.

* Have a positive, friendly attitude, but prepare for some people being drunk and obnoxious, and trying to do things you don't want to happen. Think what to do when someone gropes you, tries to kiss you, says something stupid, tries to start a fight, spills your drink (or their drink on you), steps on you, whatever can happen so that it won't spoil your night. Try not to piss off anyone. Learn to say "no" in a nice way. 

* have a plan on giving out personal information. You could for example have a burner phone so you can forget all the people you don't want to meet again, but still give an option for people you like to reach you. 

* be aware of that the restrooms are probably in a horrible order, especially as the night gets older. People puke and pee on the floor, it can be slippery and every surface you touch is nasty. 

*prepare to have a hangover day after. Keep drinking, eat something, take a cold shower, and sleep. 

Remember that clubs are really just places that are loud, crowded, and hot. The music is often bad as well. It's OK to leave and go find another place.