Wednesday, June 19, 2019

30 days of learning

30 Days of New Learning Challenge

Learn a new dance move
Learn a new recipe
Learn a new word
Learn about today in history
Learn a useful car repair or maintenance
Learn about your favorite artist
Learn a joke
Learn what it takes to get you to the next level
Learn about the history of a place you want to travel
Learn health benefits of eating ---
Learn changes you need to make to help you ---
Learn about something new about your background
Learn how to relax
Learn about your favorite and not so favorite politician
Learn a cause you may be interested in
Learn about an organization you can support
Learn a useful grammar skill
Learn about someone that helped change the world that is not well-known
Learn meaning of a cultural symbol
Learn purpose of a statue/monument
Learn a hobby
Learn the resources needed to ---
Learn ways to help in your community
Learn ways to be more productive
Learn about a condition someone in your family has
Learn how to invest
Learn about an elder or someone of influence in your community
Learn new ways to prepare ---
Learn another new word
Learn ways to get better at ---

Wednesday, March 27, 2019

Learn something new every day

1. Removing your wisdom tooth isn't risk free. The operation could damage mandibular nerve and cause paralysis.

2. There is a thing called "disruptive mood dysregulation disorder".
"Although many children have occasional tantrums, youths with DMDD have outbursts that are out of proportion in terms of their intensity or duration. These outbursts can be verbal or behavioral. Verbal outbursts often are described by observers as "rages" or "fits". Children may scream, yell, and cry for excessively long periods of time, sometimes with little provocation. Physical outbursts may be directed toward people or property. Children may throw objects; hit, slap, or bite others; destroy toys or furniture; or otherwise act in a harmful or destructive manner."
I recognize myself in this... now, I'm not saying I have DMDD, I don't have it (it's not regular enough and I'm an adult. Adults don't have it.), but... with all the crap that happened 2012-2015, that is how I was behaving. It must have been hell for my husband.

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4. Oranges are actually green.

5. Male swan is called cobbe, female is pen and babies are cygnets or swanlings. Group of swans is called a bevy, or a wedge when flying.

6. There are male calico cats! I thought it was impossible!

7. Fasnacht (also spelled fastnacht, faschnacht, fosnot, fosnaught, fausnaught) is a fried doughnut of German origin served traditionally in the days of Carnival and Fastnacht or on Shrove Tuesday, the day before Lent starts. Fasnachts were made as a way to empty the pantry of lard, sugar, fat, and butter, which were traditionally fasted from during Lent.

Recipe

8. Praerie dogs are squirrels

9. Diane Duane's book "To Visit the Queen" was published in UK as "On Her Majesty's Wizardly Service". :-( I bought both of them, believing them to be two different books. :-(

10.  Gamboge is a pigment, tree sap, used to dye the Buddhist monks' robes. I thought they used saffron or turmeric.


11. Gaol is an alternative spelling of jail and is pronounced the same way! Huh!

12.
Calf's head a la Financière
Yes, it is a calf's head. You remove the bones and cook it, and then you arrange the bits of the head artistically on a plate - tongue in the middle, ears on both sides of it, brains on top of the tongue and the rest of the head nicely placed around them. I suppose the eyes are there somewhere also.
Then you douse it with Financière ragout.
That is made by warming up "few cockscombs, button mushrooms, truffles, quenelles, and scollops of sweetbreads" in good brown sauce and sherry or madeira. I thought first that the cockscombs were some sort of mushroom, but then I realized it was actual cockscombs...

13. Cinco de Mayo is NOT Mexico's independence day,
AND the way it is celebrated is pretty... horrible. Talk about ethnic stereotypes and cultural appropriation. I wonder what USonians would say if people "celebrated" Fourth of July by playing "cowboys and Indians" - or "hillbillies"?

14. Turkish has two past tenses; the definite and the reported. Reported past tense is used when one isn't quite sure that what is said to have happened actually did happen...
http://turkishbasics.com/verbs/reported-past-tense.php

15. Somewhere in the world, was it Minnesota, Michigan? Somewhere. The rain freezes on apples, and stays frozen. The apple inside the ice shell rots and turns into mush and drains out of the shell, leaving a perfect ice apple on the tree.


16. There is a "Magic Capital" in India, Mayong. They say the people are very good with illusions and such, making things turn into other things, etc.

17. A giraffe's tail is about a meter long. An elephant's tail is about 1-1 1/2 meter long. A hippo's tail is about half a meter long.

18. Barbola: decorative work consisting of small models of flowers and fruit made from plastic paste

19. Chess boxing is “11 alternating 3 minute rounds of chess and boxing”. First you have a round of chess (speed chess) immediately followed by a 3 minute round of boxing, and this goes on 11 rounds.

20. Bigfoot erotica is a thing.






I can't unknow that now.
And I don't know what to do with that fact.

21. Hmm... I learned that midges are like mosquitos, not like flies. Though they do belong to the "fly" family. As mosquitos do. I thought they were flies, like horse-flies, but just very, very small.

22. We have a dish in Finland called mämmi. In Swedish it's memma, and I think it's the same thing in English. It's basically malted rye porridge, and it's very dark and sweet and special. I tried to explain what it is to a Swedish friend. I couldn't come up with any word to describe the sweetening process, because it's very special. It's called "imeltää" in Finnish.
Today I remembered to find out what it is in Swedish. It's "mälta". The process one used when one makes malts. To malt...
Another interesting little thing. "Imelä" is a purely Finnic word, meaning sweet. Imeltää and mälta are totally unrelated. Mälta comes from malt, meaning soft, weak, young, probably referring to the sprouting process; that the hard, dry corns are made soft and malleable by sprouting.



23. I was reading Kipling's Second Jungle Book, and read this: "And he met Thibetan herdsmen with their dogs and flocks of sheep, each sheep with a little bag of borax on his back". What? Why would the sheep be carrying borax? Isn't that bad for the wool?
So I found out, that

In Tibet, people used to freight borax on the backs of sheep!
Tincal is brought into the [nearest] town in Tibet and sold at the bazaars... ...Sheep owners buy it from the small dealers and put it into their saddlebags, placing as much as 30-40 pounds in each bag, or about equal in weight to the animal carrying it. When they (the sheep) have received their loads, they are started on their wearisome journey, many of the flocks carrying nothing but tincal. Each sheep-driver carries a distaff and bobbins, and as they travel along, every bit of wool that falls from the sheep, or that sticks to the thorny bushes with which the sheep may come in contact, is carefully collected. The wool thus gathered is spun into yarn or strong thread and then woven into cloth, which in its turn is made into bags. These are covered outside with sheepskins to prevent the tincal from getting wet, and also to prects the woolen bags from getting torn by the thorny bushes.
Numbers of the sheep and goats die on the road, and their flesh is always eaten by the drivers.
From 800-1000 sheep constitute a drove.
The animals are driven from 7-9 miles a day, and it takes from six to eight weeks for the journey from the starting point to Moradabad.
Borates: Handbook of Deposits, Processing, roperties, and Use By Donald E. Garrett
These borax caravans were so common they even had "salt roads". 
(BTW, sheep weight a lot more than 30-40 pounds, at least twice that, if not more.)

Picture is from In the Forbidden Land by A. Henry Savage Landor
This "Forbidden Land" is the area between China and India, so "close enough" :-D

24. Tincal is rude borax salt, the way it is mined

25. Don Quixote is written with x in English, because that's how Cervantes wrote it. That Cervantes wrote it so, because that's how Spanish was written at his time, is irrelevant. It is pronounced "kichote" anyway.
Now, the word "quixotic" is not pronounced "kichotic", but "quicksotic"... "because it's an English word". No. It's based on the character, not the spelling, it should be pronounced like the name of the character, not like the English word with that spelling would be pronounced. English are stupid.

26. Pazzo is Italian for crazy, fool. Wiktionary doesn't know the etymology, but I think i do. I think it's short of pagliacco, a clown. The opera Pagliacci is called Pajazzo in Swedish.

27. So, today I was called a stan :-D "Stan - A crazed and or obsessed fan. The term comes from the song Stan by eminem. The term Stan is used to describe a fan who goes to great lengths to obsess over a celebrity."
I read Tomi Adeyemi's book Children of Blood and Bone. I didn't like it.
But someone left a trashy review, and someone else responded to that review by claiming that people should be perfect when they write diverse literature.
What?
I reacted and told that person that Children of Blood and Bone is good enough. Might not be the best book ever, but it shouldn't need to, either. That the only requirement for people to write diverse fiction is to write diverse fiction. That a book by a black author with a black MC is diverse, and does its in the effort to balance the scales, to provide us with more diversity in literature. That we shouldn't expect more of colored authors than we expect of white authors. That we shouldn't try to set expectations and demands on colored authors that will only make it harder for colored authors to dare to write and publish what they have written. And the person who wrote the review (a white author who writes trashy romance novels - trashy by her own definition) responded by saying she's so tired of all Adeyemi stans telling her she didn't understand. :-D
I wasn't even talking to her, I wasn't implying that she didn't understand the book or that there was something wrong with her review, and I don't think Tomi Adeyemi is a celebrity :-D
But - what ever. I suppose she's p'd off because this young woman just writes a book and instantly everyone is raving about it, and no-one did that for her, and it's so unfair!

28. In Agatha Christie's Tuedsay Murder Club there is a peculiar item... a bowl of corn-flour.
 “Mr. Jones had gone down to the kitchen and demanded a bowl of corn-flour for his wife, who had complained of not feeling well.”
Later: “Miss Clark… told us that the whole of the bowl of corn-flour was drunk not by Mrs. Jones but by her.”
Later: “it is nicely made, too, no lumps… Very few girls nowadays seem to be able to make a bowl of corn-flour nicely.”
Later: “You drink up the bowl of corn-flour.”
I don't think that's actual bowl full of dry flour poured straight out of a bag. So... what is it?
Here's a discussion about this and other interesting things :-D
I think that "2 tablespoons of starch in 1/2 pint of water" is a recipe I found in an old cook book with recipes for invalids...

29. Platinum foxes are a color variant of the red fox, not arctic fox.

30. Of the last 10 Presidents of USA, only three didn't have US born parents and grandparents.
Ronald Reagan's parents were born in USA, but his paternal grandfather and maternal grandmother were born in UK.
Barack Obama's father and paternal grandparents were Kenyan, mother and maternal grandparents were USonian.
Of Donald Trumps parents and grandparents, only his father was born in USA. His mother and maternal grandparents were Scottish and paternal grandparents were German.

Sunday, February 10, 2019

The 64 Arts Of The Kama Sutra (not sex)

The 64 Arts Of The Kama Sutra are:

1. Singing

2. Playing a musical instrument

3. Dancing

4.  A combination of singing, using musical instruments and dancing

5. Writing and drawing

6. The Art of Tattooing

7. Adorning an idol with flowers

8. The art of spreading flowers on a bed or on the ground

9. Coloring fabrics, nail and body with colors from plants

10. Fixing colored glass tiles on floor

11.The art of making a bed

12. Producing music by striking glasses of water

13. The art of storing water in reservoirs
I think this should be udaka-ghata, which does NOT mean "art of storing water", but "art of splashing water on ground", "Splashing and squirting with water", "the art of splashing water around and swimming at the ghat"

14. The art of picture making and decorating

15. Making rosaries, necklaces, garlands

16. Tying turbans

17. Stage playing

18. The art of making ear ornaments

19. The art of making perfumes

20. Proper care of jewels, decorations and ornaments

21. Magic (sorcery) (Aindra Jala - magic, sorcery OR juggling?)

22. Manual skills (sleigh of hand)

23. Cooking (culinary skills)

24. Making combination drinks and flavored drinks i.e.– lemonades, sherbet etc

25. Tailoring and sewing

26. Making handicrafts e.g.– parrots, flowers etc. from thread

27. Skills to solve riddles, puzzles and covert speeches

28. The skill of Antakshari (a singing game were one must start with the letter with which other person’s song ended)

29. The skill of imitating natural sounds

30. Reading, chanting and intoning (this is most likely the ability to recite books and verses from memory)

31. Mastering tongue twisters

32. Skills at martial arts (the skills to use sword, stick, bow and arrow)

33. Skill to reach logical conclusions based on given facts

34. Carpentry

35. Architecture

36. Knowledge about gold, silver and gems

37. Chemistry (knowledge of properties of materials)

38. The art of coloring jewels or beads

39. Knowledge of mines

40. Gardening

41. The art of cock fighting (getting cocks, quail or rams to fight and make the fowl/animal victorious)

42. Teaching parrots or starlings to talk

43. Applying perfumes on body and hair

44. Understanding of code language
(this could be sign language, a language of letters and fingers for those who cannot hear)

45. Spoonerism (purposefully interchanging position of letters of words while speaking)

46. Knowledge of languages

47. Knowledge of making flower chariots

48. Knowledge of making mystical graphics, spells and charms and ways to avoid spells

49. Mental exercises

50. Composing poems

51. Knowledge of dictionaries and vocabulary

52. The art of impersonation

53. Impersonation of materials i.e.– make common things appear fine rare substances (make cotton appear to be silk)

54. Knowledge of gambling

55. Using mantras (enchantments) to take away others’ possession

56. Skills in sports and games

57. The art of social conduct, paying respect and sending compliments

58. Knowledge of war, arms and army deployment

59. Knowledge of gymnastics

60. The skills of knowing a person’s real character from his conduct

61. The skill of reading and composing verses

62. The skills of enjoying arithmetic puzzles

63. Making artificial flowers

64. Making images with clay

“A public woman, endowed with a good disposition, beauty and other winning qualities, and also versed in the above arts, obtains the name of a Ganika, or public woman of high quality, and receives a seat of honour in an assemblage of men.She is, moreover, always respected by the king, and praised by learned men, and her favour being sought for by all, she becomes an object of universal regard. The daughter of a king too as well as the daughter of a minister, being learned in the above arts, can make their husbands favorable to them, even though these may have thousands of other wives besides themselves.If a wife becomes separated from her husband, and falls into distress, she can support herself easily, even in a foreign country, by means of her knowledge of these arts. Even the bare knowledge of them gives attractiveness to a woman, though the practice of them may be only possible or otherwise according to the circumstances of each case.A man who is versed in these arts, who is loquacious and acquainted with the arts of gallantry, gains very soon the hearts of women, even though he is only acquainted with them for a short time.”
Kama Sutra of Vatsyayana

Now, some of this loses in translation: there's the 64 transcendental arts, which seems to be the same list, or mostly the same, but it's a bit different

Also, I don't have the slightest idea was kaucumara is.
"The next in line is Kumara the one we all know for he is the one who takes the rawness out of the soil and moulds it into thing of utility" - potter.
"the secret sexual teachings - on aphrodisiac and seduction"
"preparation of sorcery and recipes expounded by Kuchumara (kaucumara yoga) "
"kaucumara-yogah, the art of disguise"

Wednesday, January 9, 2019

Hell Week

Erik Bertrand Larssen has written a book called Hell Week, where he applies his experiences.
The idea, to put it shortly, is to get up earlier, go to bed earlier, and give your all every waking minute. So, I'm giving it a try.

One of the things on my "bucket list" is to complete a goal every day for a year, like ZombieGirl did.
I am using the Hell Week to get it going.

The difficult part with this is to remember a couple of things:
* It's COMPLETE a goal, which means that I can do it in steps spread over several days, like if I do something every day of the month, or have a movie marathon, or chew through a list of books or something like that.
* Any goal will do. It doesn't need to be something spectacular and amazing, it's enough to do something small, like learn a card trick or cook something.
* Done is better than perfect. This means, that if I bake something, it doesn't need to be well baked. It doesn't need to look good. I don't need to succeed, just follow the recipe and try.

So... ZombieGirl has done it. It's just to do what she did, and get it done. :-D

First 10 days:

I am not going to volunteer in any dash, or go to Oregon, but I would like to have "tjejmilen" on my achieved goals... It's some 7 months until that event, so nicely time to train.
So C25K it is. I need to put the training plan on the calendar so that I can mark it done this year.
I suppose I need to start it by walking 5K every day, and then just working on getting the speed up.

Making fudge sounds like a good idea, but on my list I have "bake through the Daring Bakers' challenges", so I think I should take recipes from that list.

Now, I have several movies on my to watch list, and it takes only a couple of hours to watch a movie, so that I can do when I don't come up with something else to do.

Another thing to do is to do something I fear every day. - or at least once a week.

One thing I would like to add to my list is to learn to enjoy fish. But, there are more "important" things there. I want to get back to reading books, for example, so I need to start reading at least an hour every day.


Thursday, January 3, 2019

2019

My sister had a wonderful idea. Complete 4 goals this year.
It can be anything.
Like...
what is your best quality, what are your talents, do something to make you better, to embrace that quality.
Which sense would you like to improve or embrace?
Is there something that has been on your "I wish..." list or "to do" list since forever?
Pick a list, any list from listchallenges and complete it.
Learn to do something, learn a new hobby

Some inspiration: ZombieGirl's Complete a goal every day for a year
It doesn't need to be complicated, difficult, take the whole day etc. Just try some food you have never eaten before. :-D

10 things I want to do in February

My problem is two-fold.
1) I want to do something big and amazing and epic and challenging. I don't just want to read the 10 books everyone should read or eat something new once a week. I want to change the world and do... something big and amazing and... :-D
2) I never finish anything, I don't stick to anything. I know exactly HOW to do anything, I know I can learn anything, I know nothing is impossible. I just... don't do it. I have no tenacity, perseverance, commitment. None what so ever. The only thing I can be trusted to do is anything that doesn't require me to do anything. You can trust I will stay in a relationship forever, because leaving it would require me to do something. You can trust I could stay in bed 24/7, because leaving it would require me to do something. Anything else.... nope. I mean... I can't even rip a calendar page every day. I probably wouldn't eat very much if I lived alone.



I would LOVE to do a 365 blog. I wanted to make a 365 blog with peacocks, like Noah Scalin's Skull-a-day.
I would love to do a 365 self portrait challenge.
I would love a "make something every day of the year"
I would really love it if I was that kind of a person. I'm not.

I made myself an Autumn bucket list. It's totally achievable. I am fully capable of doing everything on the list. I am very fond of it. I think it's a really nice list. So after I had made it, I decided I would do one for each season. Bah.

I started a 101 things in 1001 days challenge. I don't think I managed to do any of the things, and I stuck with it for... a week, perhaps?
I did a 50 before 50 challenge. I'll be 50 in April. Have I done anything on the list? Nah.
I love lists like that.
I. JUST. CAN'T. GET. IT. DONE.

*sigh*

Like... I have this dream. I want to make all 8 Pagan holidays as big as Yule. I have even done the time management list about that! I mean, there are 52 weeks in a year. That is 6 1/2 weeks for each holiday. That's 4 weeks before and 12 days of the holiday and then a couple of days between for rest. There already is a very solid traditions of advent celebration, "December daily", "Elf on the Shelf", family traditions for December, Twelfth night and all that stuff. The only thing one needs to do is to replace all the Yule specifics with the other holiday specifics. I have even done that already! I know the colors and symbols and activities for each holiday and all that jazz, and it would be so easy! All it takes is FOR ME TO JUST DO IT! But, no. 20 years of planning and dreaming, and last year we didn't celebrate even Christmas! Eh.

I have tried to create lists on the things I actually do, but what it resulted with was that I stopped doing even those things. :-(
I used to walk 5K every day, come rain, come shine. I decided I would up it to running 5K every day. I started the C25K program. The first day I did it... I couldn't even run a minute. I could run like 10 seconds. There is no "run 10 seconds and walk 20 minutes" plan, so... I didn't do even that. Now, I was still walking the 5K, but then things happened and I stopped.
I used to yoga every morning. So I decided to up it a little, and add two more moves, to get somewhere with my dream of splits, and - I stopped.
I used to read with gusto. I decided to start reading these "100 books everyone should read" lists, and... I haven't read a book for years. (yeah, I have, but whereas I used to read at least a book every week, now I read at most a book a month. Usually not even that.)
I'm really good with languages. I love languages, and I learn quickly. But - nope.
I have an opinion on everything and I write long and well about it. So I started a blog about my opinions on everything. Have I updated it? No. The last 5 years I have managed to blog 10 times or less. Yay me!

So... how could I improve my persistence?
So - the goal is very much worth it.
Have I ever persisted? Once. It lead nowhere. I kept on doing something for more than a year, and all it got me was... mental breakdown. I really wanted something and I couldn't get it. The more I tried, the more it resisted, and when I gave up, it went away alltogether. It was really devastating, and not rewarding in any way. But... I did it. I don't know how.

Thursday, October 18, 2018

"nobody helps me!"

I want desperately friends. I have seen all those movies and tv shows with a group of friends that experience amazing things and get through difficult times together. I want to be a Friend, and a Golden Girl, and BFF and all kinds of things.

I read other people's bucket list adventures, and feel desperately alone. "I could, too, if I had friends like that. I would, too, if..."

I listened to Barbara Sher's Ted Talk, "Isolation is the dream killer, not your attitude".
But I AM isolated. I expect the world to ignore me. That's what always happens. Nobody wants to do things with me. Nobody wants to be with me. Not even people who have never met me, and don't know that nobody wants me. I ask for help, I ask for company, I ask for someone to see me and hear me, and everyone just walks by as if I was invisible.

The thing is... this feeling is wrong. We have been brainwashed to think we need "friends", and that these "friends" are a special kind of people. In all the tv shows and movies, these friends have plenty of time and interest and energy exactly when we need it, and the exact right words and they do the exact right things to make the MC feel better and get over the bad things, and vice versa, when the friend is in trouble, the MC has the time and energy and resources and everything just as it is needed. And they always have good time, and all that. That is not real.

In real life, what you need is people, and these people are everywhere. 99% of world population - and it doesn't matter if you are in Africa or Asia, in the deepest jungles of South America or coldest widths of Arctic. This is what people do. We recognize another human being as just that, another one of our species. We have been spread all over this planet like no other life form just because we help each other and we communicate and we socialize. It's natural to human beings. To tap into that, to make every person you meet a "friend", is to treat them as if they were your friends. And that also means that you let them be when they express they want to be left alone. There's over seven billion people on this planet, you don't need that specific person to be your "friend" at the moment.

Here's Barbara Sher's Idea Party

And when it comes to bucket lists, you  don't need a friend who can do what you want to do to help you, to teach you, because the internet is there. And the internet is full of people who are willing to help people they don't know, will never know, won't even know that they have helped these people... you can find a tutorial on virtually any subject online. People have put online totally free, available to everyone, all kinds of programs and tutorials and schedules and plans. You just have to put in the effort. No friends needed, no money needed, no loops to jump, no catches.